Sex
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How to Have a Fantastic Nipple Orgasm Because, Yep, That’s a Thing
It’s all about making your boobs the main event—not the sideshow.
By Erica Sloan
Super Soaker
So You Want to Learn How to Squirt During Sex
A step-by-step guide to turning on the water works.
By Erica Sloan
7 People on Why They Chose to Be Celibate for a Spell
“This break ended up being a wake-up call: Most of the people I was seeing didn’t really care about my pleasure.”
By Jenna Ryu
Buzz-worthy
This 3-in-1 Vibrator Makes It Easy to Switch It Up in Bed
I found a beginner-friendly wand that does (almost) everything.
By Gabrielle Kassel
Here’s Where to Find the Best Audio Porn and Erotica
Whether you’re into sexy stories, masturbation tutorials, or straight-up moaning.
By Anna Borges and Jenni Miller
- Health
Here’s How to Properly Clean Your Sex Toys
Yes, you have to do this. No, it doesn’t have to be a hassle.By Kathleen Felton and Lindsey Lanquist You’re Gonna Want to Say Yes, Yes, YES to These Clitoral Vibrators
These suction, finger, and wand vibes are ready to show you a good time.27 slidesBy Malia Griggs and Kristin CanningI’ve Tested More Than 100 Wand Vibrators—But This One Is My All-Time Favorite
It won me over in minutes.By Gabrielle Kassel- Love
Your Guide to the Very Best Vibrators Out There
We've got options for all, whether you’re new to toys or just looking for something more fun.46 slidesBy Sarah Madaus and Gabrielle Kassel - Love
The Best Vibrators on Amazon That Reviewers Can’t Stop Buzzing About
They’ll ship quickly and definitely deliver.26 slidesBy Kristin Canning Yes, Sex Furniture Is a Thing—Here Are 33 Functional Options We Love
It could be just what you need to spice things up.By Sarah Madaus and Gabrielle Kassel- Buzz worthy
15 Wand Vibrators That’ll Hit All the Right Spots
Try them on clits, nipples, penises, butts—anywhere you want to feel a nice buzz.16 slidesBy Malia Griggs and Jessica Kasparian 12 Strap-Ons That Are Great From Top to Bottom
Including beginner-friendly options and upgrades for experienced users.13 slidesBy Malia Griggs and Sara Coughlin10 Sex Pillows to Help You Hit All the Right Angles
According to experts and very pleased shoppers.11 slidesBy Jessica KasparianHow to Have Multiple Orgasms When One Just Isn’t Enough
It’s a marathon, not a sprint.By Zahra Thompson
Ex-streamly hot
17 Incredibly Sexy Movies You Can Watch on Hulu Right Now
Get ready to settle in for a titillating evening at home—alone or with a partner.
By Katie Way and Samantha Vincenty
Oh my word
How to Talk Dirty During Sex Without Feeling Cringey
Experts offer ideas for things to say—plus tips for getting out of your own head in the moment.
By Erica Sloan
Love
What to Do If You and Your Partner Have Mismatched Sex Drives
Your relationship isn’t doomed, but it’s important to address it to keep resentment from building up.
By Jenna Ryu
Who's a good girl?
Are You Seriously Turned On By Validation? Here’s How to Explore a Praise Kink in Bed
There’s nothing like a steady stream of compliments to make good sex fantastic.
By Erica Sloan
A Beginner’s Guide to Pegging
Ready to take butt stuff to a whole new level? Here’s how to try it.
By Erica Sloan
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9 Very Hot Non-Penetrative Sex Ideas
If you can’t—or don’t want to—get it in, we’ve got some moves that’ll still get you off.
By Erica Sloan
Hot mama
How to Feel Horny Again as a New Mom
Remember that you won’t be sexless and covered in spit-up forever.
By Kathleen Felton
17 Hot Ways to Stimulate Your Clit for an Amazing Orgasm
There’s so much more than your basic nub-rub to try.
By Erica Sloan
How to Try Edging, the Sex Technique That Takes Teasing to a Whole New Level
Drawing out the buildup to an orgasm can be incredibly hot.
By Erica Sloan
What to Do If IBS Is Shitting on Your Sex Life
GI symptoms always seem to show up at the worst possible times.
By Erica Sloan
The Best Lubes for Smooth Sailing Alone or With a Partner
Loved by both experts and shoppers.
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By Malia Griggs and Sarah Felbin
What to Do If Dry Mouth During Sex Is Really Killing Your Vibe
If your teeth, tongue, and lips transform into the Sahara whenever you visit Pound Town, read this.
By Anna Borges
How to Have Great Sex If You Deal With Chronic Pain
It’s absolutely possible to make your body a source of pleasure.
By Erica Sloan
Love
What Does ‘Enough’ Sex Really Look Like in a Healthy Relationship?
Is once a week really the sweet spot? We asked experts to weigh in.
By Jenna Ryu
12 Tips for Having Better, More Intense Orgasms
If you’re looking to come so hard you forget your own name, read on.
By Zahra Thompson
Love
How to Get Really, Really Good at Kissing
Tips about form, technique, and all things tongue.
By Nikki Campo and Gigi Engle
The Beginner’s Guide to Using a Vibrator
If you’re brand-new to this type of sex toy, here’s everything to know to have an amazing time.
By Anna Borges and Amy Rose Spiegel
What My First Time Having Sex After Giving Birth Felt Like
It absolutely took longer than six weeks to get back in the groove.
By Julia Ries
How to Give a Mind-Blowingly Hot Prostate Massage
You can make the P-spot feel great from the inside or outside of your partner’s body.
By Zahra Thompson